Sunday, 10 July 2016
Amazing Tips for a Happy Marriage
Marriage Boundaries
You probably got married as friends, but then found yourselves running into
difficulty because you each had your own way of living and doing. You came from one family, and your partner came from another family, and those families were different.Your job as a couple is to create some boundaries and rules that will guide you in your marriage. But if you’ve never created any rules before, and you or your partner don’t like rules and boundaries, it won’t be an easy task.
Who is the Leader?
You are equal partners making decisions in marriage. Responsibilities must be divided up. You need policies, procedures, and rules in order to work cooperatively as well as independently.
You will enjoy working together as you know each other better and gain confidence in each other’s decision-making ability. Developing faith and trust takes many months. Forging a new way of life from your different backgrounds takes time and patience.
Remember, you are equal partners. You are both vitally interested in all areas of the marriage. As in a business, consult with each other and participate in making decisions and reviewing them.
Competing Spouses
When the Dolans, a Christian couple, came to see me, they had not spoken to each other for several weeks. The tension had become unbearable.
The issue was over dancing in gym class. Hal Dolan had said flatly that their son should not participate.
Melissa Dolan had agreed in front of her husband, but privately gave their son permission to participate. Hal found out about it through a conversation with a neighbor who had visited the gym class.
New ‘SIM Card Cloning’ Scam In Town – How to be Careful
A 72-year-old senior citizen was bewildered when she got SMSs that
around Rs 11 lakhs had been withdrawn from her bank. A Mumbai resident and a former US consulate employee got the shock of her life when she found that con men had found out her credit card details and booked flight tickets worth 11 lakhs through her bank money! Check out the scam that affected many so far, and you might be next.
around Rs 11 lakhs had been withdrawn from her bank. A Mumbai resident and a former US consulate employee got the shock of her life when she found that con men had found out her credit card details and booked flight tickets worth 11 lakhs through her bank money! Check out the scam that affected many so far, and you might be next.
How did this happen?
Well, the fraudsters first cloned her SIM card and then telephoned her bank for credit card details by pretending to be her. Once they got the details, the job was done.
But how can a SIM card be cloned?
SIM card cloning is a new kind of cyber crime that could leave you bankrupt. Hackers could find all your personal details and launder all your money.
Specialised software and a SIM card reader can copy all the information of a SIM card on another, blank one. It can also be done by sending over-the-air (OTA) commands to it through protected SMSes. Only professional hackers can clone a SIM by using high tech software.
How to find out whether a SIM card has been cloned?
Check your mobile bill. If you find a series of unknown numbers dialled from your phones then there’s something really fishy. Also, someone trying to reach you and getting a busy tone, even when you’re not on the phone, could be a sign that your SIM card getting cloned.
How should we prevent our SIM cards from getting cloned?
Be very careful about whom you give your phone to. If you want to give your phone for mobile servicing, then make sure you give it to only authorised servicing centres and take out the SIM cards before submitting your phone.
Do not pick up calls from numbers that flash ‘Unknown Number’ on your screen. Also avoid taking calls which begin with +92, +90 or +09.
In case you pick up such calls, and if the person on the other end asks you to dial a number, hang up immediately, because this can be the hackers trying to copy your contact details.
Try keeping a second number that you don’t share with anybody, for bank work.
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8 Relationship Tips To Transform Your Love Life
Many have a hard time with their relationships. Whenever we think about
dating often the first question that comes to mind is, “Is it really that hard to date someone?” Some people just can’t resist dating and get into any relationship because they are tired of being single. For some it is a complicated world with barriers to entry. You may be thinking dating is just a big nightmare, but when done correctly dating can be beautiful and help you transform into a more amazing person.Here is a list of steps you can take to improve your love life and make it blossom:
• Be your best
Try to be your best self before you enter a relationship and keep working at it. Don’t change just to please your partner, analyze yourself and figure out your weaknesses and flaws, then try to eliminate them. Once you take initiatives to improve you will be better suited to find the right relationship with someone impressed by you who also works on themselves.
• Communicate
Strong two-way communication is the key to any successful relationship. Talk things out together. If you don’t like something tell them right away and try to find out solutions to problems rather than getting into arguments.
• Spend time together
We understand you have a busy schedule, however you can make some time for each other. Smartphones can play an important role here, send each other random texts or calls. A simple ‘thinking about you,’ message can make all the difference. Pursue hobbies together and try to find quality time.
15 "Red Flags" Married Couples Ignored But Had No Impact on Their Relationship
Some unmarried persons asked a married couple to tell them about
times when something that's traditionally considered a "red flag" in a relationship turned out to be not that important. The answers are interesting and eye-opening, to say the least.While some of the things below can be legit signals to run for the hills as fast as you freaking can, they aren't always. And as another user points out, "I broke off an engagement over four years ago and every relationship I've had since then I break off when I see a red flag. It's nice to know that some red flags are okay and acceptable."
1. She's a collector. "Collecting literally 1000's of elephants. Cuddly toys/posters/ ornaments, Everything. Even in our house today they are everywhere, you can point in any direction in nearly every room and you'll find another one. It's the worst safari I've ever been on."
2. Our families thought we were too young and wrong for each other. "Both of our families saying we were making a huge mistake because we were young and so wrong for each other. My family refused to call her anything other than 'that whore' and refused to accept that I was serious about her. They all wanted me to get back with my ex. Her family liked to remind us that I was trash and not good enough for her every few minutes. It's tough to hear that from people who are supposed to love you and we ended up cutting ourselves off from family for a few years because of it, some we still don't talk to. I know that this isn't like some of the other replies but it is a huge red flag when literally everyone around you thinks you're making a bad decision and would rather ruin your relationship than see you happy. We just celebrated our tenth wedding anniversary and it still feels like we're playing house."
3. We were young. "I met my wife when I was 22 and she was 21. She had never had a boyfriend and made it pretty clear she planned on marrying the first guy she got serious with. Not because she was desperate to get married; she just didn't plan on getting serious unless it was someone she could see marrying. In hindsight that could scared me off, but I was too crazy about her to care."
4. She didn't know much about some stuff. "She saw LOTR and asked me if it was based on a true story. We watched Ray (movie of Ray Charles' life) and asked me if he lived long enough to SEE the movie."
5. Your spouse is just like your parent. "That my husband was exactly like my mother. Turns out my mother is pretty awesome."
6. He had some serious obstacles to overcome. "He did very poorly in college, isn't good at budgeting money, was a heavy smoker, had some trouble with addiction to prescription medication, and went through a 2-yr period of depression ~3yrs into our relationship. Could have cut & run because things were looking pretty damn bad. Instead I stayed and helped him all I could. Now we have been together almost 11yrs, got married 8 months ago, he is has beaten his depression and addiction, has an awesome career that lets him work from home. Couldn't be happier that I stayed with the adorable, sweet, smart, dead-beat. Our relationship is my proudest accomplishment."
7. The sex wasn't mind-blowing. "That we don't have the best chemistry in bed. I had many boyfriends before my husband and have a very liberal way of approaching sexual life (kind of like 'whatever makes you happy if no one gets hurt!'), and he's very conservative and 'vanilla'. I definitely had better sex in my life than with my husband. But I had never loved or felt loved as much as with him, and we've been happy for 5 years, expecting our first child, enjoying every moment of being together and having a good and loving sexual life."
8. A history of breakups and makeups. "He broke up with me three times during the three years before he proposed. Never for more than 48 hours, but still. We fixed some issues each time and haven't had even a glimmer of doubt since."
9. Mother-in-law wasn't for it. "My future mil spending half an hour trying to convince me not to marry her son because he wasn't good enough for me (immediately following our engagement announcement, to her). In hind sight she was really right about his housekeeping habits, but more than a decade in, while very annoying it's hardly a deal breaker! Her son has been the best thing to happen to me and I certainly wouldn't be where I am today without him. (Edit: my mil is very sweet and very kind to us both, I think she was just having a hard time with the idea of one of her children getting married. And genuinely concerned for me, lol.)"
10. We both were divorcees. "She was just coming off of her divorce (rebound). I always despised how divorced people were seen as damaged goods and didn't put it in my dating profile because I didn't think it made me less of a person. When we got together romantically, (we had known each other for years before), we both had it so much easier. We have many times called ours marriage 2.0."
11. We met online and moved in together fast. "I guess I met him on a Internet forum and like 3 months later he sold everything he had to move clear across the country to be with me. It was damn fast imo and it sucked for the first year because he couldn't get a job. I had to work 4 jobs. Never again. 7 years later and I still love him, but now it's his turn to work multiple jobs."
12. She lies a lot. "A huge red flag for sure. But once I noticed, I also noticed that they're all pretty much defensive lies to excuse herself to protect her pride - if she's late because she actually procrastinated, she'll fib that she fell asleep or the dog was sick. If she forgot to walk the dog, she'll fib that she tried to walk him but he was too tired, if she didn't put the laundry away she'll fib that her sister called and she got distracted by that. I especially noticed it when she involves me in the lie, like if we don't feel like going out to the club with some friends instead of just saying 'hey feeling drained from work gonna sit this out' she asks me to say 'the dog hurt his paw really badly so we have to take him to the vet'. It really bothered me when we first started dating because I thought she was lazy and trying to trick me into doing all the chores.
Once I learned WHY she's such a chronic liar I got way more forgiving of it. Her mother is such a nitpicking, character judging witch of a woman, and she's grown up her whole life having to deflect blame instead of accepting a fault and moving on, because instead of accepting an apology her family will hound her for making the mistake, and anyone else in the family gets similar treatment. If the mistake is 'Someone else's fault' then she doesn't get hounded, so she started instinctively doing that. She's terrified I'll 'hate' her like her family does and think she's useless and lazy so she tries to deflect blame
So now we're working on it. When I come home and the dishes aren't done because 'I had a really bad headache and took some Advil and accidentally fell asleep ' when I know she just got distracted by Facebook because she hates washing dishes I'll just nod and and ask her to dry while I wash. If I'm really tired then I'll ask her to just do half and I'll finish up. And we don't make up excuses to our friends anymore."
13. He lied about something big. "He lied about graduating college. Come to find out he was trying to finish school (24 years old). I told a friend and she said, 'OMG, he will always be a liar! He probably cheats too. Dump him!!'
Turns out he was just embarrassed to tell me the truth. I kept my distance for a while, but after seeing him bust his hump to finish school while working full-time, I knew it was a one time mistake.
Married almost 8 years and 3 kids later, he works just as hard as ever, and is very honest and trustworthy. That friend, however, is still single."
14. She didn't believe in sex before marriage. "I started dating my wife when she was a senior in high school and I was just starting college.
On the second date she made it clear that she was saving herself for marriage. Now the only reason this was a red flag for me is because A) girls like that where I'm from are almost always cray B) sex (for me) is a very important aspect of a serious relationship
I fell in love, ignored my 'red flag' (which in hindsight was a dumb red flag in the first place) and married her. She's not crazy, marriage is amazing, and the sex is utterly mind blowing. I wouldn't trade our marriage for anything!"
15. "She's a huge Nickelback fan. Still is." This might be the only real deal breaker in the whole list.
Dating Tips for Finding the Right Person
How to Navigate New Relationships and Find Lasting Love

Single and looking for love? Dating is hard enough without the emotional baggage you may be bringing to the table. And when you’re having trouble finding a love connection, it’s all too easy to buy into the destructive myths out there about dating and relationships. That’s why you may want to start by re-assessing your beliefs and expectations about love—especially if you’ve been burned repeatedly or have a poor track record when it comes to dating.
Learning how to keep things in perspective, watch for red flags, and deal with trust issues will put you on the path to finding a loving relationship that lasts.
How to Navigate New Relationships and Find Lasting Love
Single and looking for love? Dating is
hard enough without the emotional baggage you may be bringing to the table. And when you’re having trouble finding a love connection, it’s all too easy to buy into the destructive myths out there about dating and relationships. That’s why you may want to start by re-assessing your beliefs and expectations about love—especially if you’ve been burned repeatedly or have a poor track record when it comes to dating.Learning how to keep things in perspective, watch for red flags, and deal with trust issues will put you on the path to finding a loving relationship that lasts.
Life as a single person offers many rewards, including learning how to build a healthy relationship with yourself. However, if you’re ready to share your life with someone and want to build a lasting, worthwhile relationship, life as a single person can also be very frustrating. Finding the right romantic partner is often a difficult journey, for several reasons. Perhaps you grew up in a household where there was no role model of a solid, healthy relationship and you doubt that such a thing even exists. Or maybe your dating history consists only of short, abrupt relationships where you or your partner gets bored too soon, and you don't know how to make a relationship last. You could be attracted to the wrong type of person or keep making the same bad choices over and over, due to an unresolved issue from your past. It's also possible you're not putting yourself in the best environments to meet the right person, or that when you do, you don't feel confident enough to approach someone. Whatever the case may be, it's important to believe that a healthy romantic relationship for you exists in the future. It's also important to recognize that relationships are never perfect and always require lots of work, compromise, and a willingness to resolve conflict in a positive way. To find and build any relationship worth keeping, you may need to start by re-assessing some of your misconceptions about dating and relationships that can prevent you from finding lasting love:
Finding the right romantic partner is often a difficult journey, for several reasons. Perhaps you grew up in a household where there was no role model of a solid, healthy relationship and you doubt that such a thing even exists. Or maybe your dating history consists only of short, abrupt relationships where you or your partner gets bored too soon, and you don't know how to make a relationship last. You could be attracted to the wrong type of person or keep making the same bad choices over and over, due to an unresolved issue from your past. It's also possible you're not putting yourself in the best environments to meet the right person, or that when you do, you don't feel confident enough to approach someone. Whatever the case may be, it's important to believe that a healthy romantic relationship for you exists in the future.
It's also important to recognize that relationships are never perfect and always require lots of work, compromise, and a willingness to resolve conflict in a positive way. To find and build any relationship worth keeping, you may need to start by re-assessing some of your misconceptions about dating and relationships that can prevent you from finding lasting love:
New Military Flashlight Every Patriot Needs to Know About
Incredible Military Issued Flashlight Now Available to Public
Do you suffer from "Dim Flashlight" disorder?
You know, that exasperating feeling when you turn on an old flashlight, only to discover it's foggy bulb can barely light the way to the bathroom, let alone down a dark hallway or country road in an emergency.
The truth is, most people underestimate the importance of owning a great flashlight for their home, car or boat.
Ask any fireman, police officer, military man, survivalist or hunter and they'll tell you how critical it is for them to have a flashlight at their disposal at all times. And for them, not just any flashlight will do. Those clunky plastic halogen flashlights that require C or D batteries are practically worthless -- they're just too heavy, too dim, and too easily broken.
Thankfully, recent advancements in lighting technology have taken flashlights to the next level. Compact LEDs have led to smaller flashlights that put out more light while using a fraction of the energy their old-fashioned counterparts use. But before you run out to Home Depot to buy any old LED flashlight, you need to know about a new tactical flashlight called the G700, which uses recently released military technology now available to the public.
Made out of nearly indestructible Machined Aircraft Aluminim, the G700 runs on 3 AAA batteries and is able to light the way to safety with 700 blinding lumens of light. It also houses a super cool ZOOM feature (demonstrated in the photo above), an "SOS mode" to signal for help, as well as a "strobe mode" that produces a pulsating frequency to disorient a threat within milliseconds!
One well known Navy Seal says it's the #1 Tool everyone should own as it could be a lifesaver during a natural disaster --literally!
Massive orders are coming in from Police Departments, Fire Departments, and Armed Forces, and the National Gun Owners Association just announced a whopping 75% discount on G700's for new customers (including the general public) while supplies last.
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What Lies Have Been Written About You Online?
Check the lies that have been been written about you online...
We all know that employers do background checks on potential employees, and it’s important for you to know exactly what could pop-up. Most people just Google themselves, but that basic search won’t reveal everything that’s out there.
Think you’ve got nothing to hide? You probably don’t – really – but you could still have a damaged record. Whether some disgruntled ex lied about you on social media, you missed paying a bill years ago that went to the collectors, or someone has used your identity fraudulently, that information could ruin your future.
Instant Checkmate is the leading background search site chosen by people all over America. It lets users perform background checks on themselves, friends, family, neighbors and acquaintances. Instant Checkmate finally gives you peace of mind, through quality searches across hundreds of millions of criminal, traffic, arrest records and much more.
Through searching and compiling the information from millions of databases, Instant Checkmate provides:
• Traffic and arrest records.
• Criminal history, including DUIs and sexual offenses.
• Online dating profiles.
• Financial history.
• Credit and debt information, including foreclosures and tax liens.
• Properties owned and home value.
• Current and past known home addresses.
• Birth, death and marriage records.
• Drives license information.
• Email addresses and phone numbers.
• Voter registration.
• Corporate affiliations and job history.
• Known associates, friends and family.
• Criminal history, including DUIs and sexual offenses.
• Online dating profiles.
• Financial history.
• Credit and debt information, including foreclosures and tax liens.
• Properties owned and home value.
• Current and past known home addresses.
• Birth, death and marriage records.
• Drives license information.
• Email addresses and phone numbers.
• Voter registration.
• Corporate affiliations and job history.
• Known associates, friends and family.
It’s all available at your fingertips, and it’s only a search away.
After getting a subscription you’ll also have access to unlimited searches, so you can look up potential employers, future dates, friends, neighbors and even your own family. Find out what they’ve been hiding.
Suspicious that your date may be married, or some kind of predator? Instant Checkmate has also become a popular background check for single men and women around the country. Find out the facts before that first kiss!
Of course, learning people’s secrets can be highly addictive. Fortunately, if you decide to start searching for friends and family it’s entirely anonymous — so they’ll never know you did it.
How to Stop Snoring and Improve Your Health
Are You Suffer From Snoring? This New Doctor Trusted Solution Stops Snoring and Lets You Sleep Well.
If you constantly feel exhausted, experience headaches for no obvious reason or have high blood pressure, it could be the result of snoring.
More than a simple annoyance, snoring is also the most common symptom of a potentially serious health problem—obstructive sleep apnea (OSA).
Over 18 million Americans snore, and it’s related to OSA. People who suffer from OSA repeatedly and unknowingly stop breathing during the night due to a complete or partial obstruction of their airway. It occurs when the jaw, throat, and tongue muscles relax, blocking the airway used to breathe. The resulting lack of oxygen can last for a minute or longer, and occur hundreds of times each night.
OSA has been linked to:
OSA has been linked to:
- Acid reflux
- Frequent nighttime urination
- Memory loss
- Stroke
- Depression
- Diabetes
- Heart attack
People over 35 are at higher risk.
OSA can be expensive to diagnosis and treat — up to $5,000 — and those treatments can sometimes be quite painful. Plus, they're not always covered by insurance.
However, a recent study published by Eastern Virginia Medical School's Division of Sleep Medicine concluded that wearing a simple chinstrap while sleeping can be an effective treatment for OSA.
The chin strap, which is now available from a company called MySnoringSolution, works by supporting the lower jaw and tongue, preventing obstruction of the airway. It’s made from a high-tech, lightweight, and super-comfortable material. Thousands of people have used the MySnoringSolution chinstrap and reported better sleeping, and better health overall because of it.
An effective "DoctorTrusted" snoring solution for just $119
The chinstrap was recently evaluated by Dr. Daniel L. W. Hanley, an independent medical doctor, on the DoctorTrusted website. He reviewed the chinstrap, the product's medical information and more, and found that it met the site's strict requirements and ethical code of conduct. Indeed, DoctorTrusted deemed MySnoringSolution's website "to be trustworthy and safe for purchases as of the time of the review."
An effective "DoctorTrusted" snoring solution for just $119
The chinstrap was recently evaluated by Dr. Daniel L. W. Hanley, an independent medical doctor, on the DoctorTrusted website. He reviewed the chinstrap, the product's medical information and more, and found that it met the site's strict requirements and ethical code of conduct. Indeed, DoctorTrusted deemed MySnoringSolution's website "to be trustworthy and safe for purchases as of the time of the review."
The “My Snoring Solution” chinstrap is available exclusively from the company’s website, which is currently offering a limited time “2 for 1” offer. The product also comes with an unconditional 90-day, money-back guarantee!
If you want to stop snoring once and for all, without expensive CPAPs or other intrusive devices, this may be the solution you’ve been waiting for.
BREAKUP AND DIVORCE ADVICE - TIPS FOR MOVING ON WHEN YOU'VE BEEN DUMPED
Losing someone you love leaves you with a dull, heavy weight in your chest that often, without warning, explodes into lacerating pain. And many
cannot tolerate the agony which is one reason so many rejected lovers keep hoping against hope that their partner will return, even if deep down the know the relationship was not a good one.It’s really common for heartbroken individuals to believe that no one else on earth could possibly fill the gap left by the ex-partner. This is nonsense of course, but grief skews our thinking. So, how can you get over the pain? How can you learn to live again? How can you start viewing your single status as a fresh and fun opportunity instead of a punishment? April will give you the breakup advice you’ve been looking for and tips to help you cope with divorce.
5 Genius Dating Tips from Relationship Expert: Marzena Kubiak
Going a date if you have been single for a while might be stressful. When
my five year-long relationship finished and I went on my first date after it, I was nervous and scared. I also lacked confidence in myself and I completely forgot how to flirt. I was very conscious of what this new guy would think of me, I was conscious about my behaviour and worried if he was going to like me and find me attractive. Suddenly, all the inferiority complexes kicked in again.I have written some dating tips for you and I hope they will help you to go on your date relaxed and prepared. All of them have been tried and tested by myself.
Tip#1 Date when you feel ready
If you have just ended a relationship, give yourself time to recover! Get back on your feet and date only when you feel the moment is right. Try not to be pressurized by your friends and family telling you to go out or trying to introduce you to their friends. You need to be over your ex completely before you can open your heart to someone new. I’ve been there; it took me nearly nine months before I was ready to go on a date. Remember, each of us is different; you may need a week or a year. Allow yourself this time to value yourself and understand who you are.
Tip#2 Be yourself
I think it is important that you don’t pretend to be someone you aren’t. You should not be ashamed of what you do and who you are. For example, I tend to talk a lot and I was quite conscious of the fact that it might be seen as excessive but then I thought, “how am I supposed to be with someone if they don’t accept me the way I am”. People who put masks on actually deceive others as well as themselves! Sooner or later the truth will come out.
Tip#3 Ask Questions
Prepare a few questions beforehand if you want to avoid an awkward silence. I mean questions about family, books, future plans, etc. It will help you to understand if the person in front of you shares similar values, has same hobbies as you. It will help to establish some common ground. If you struggle to think of any questions because you are too nervous, pop in to Romantic Duo’s Facebook page. You will find their weekly selection of Questions that you could ask on a date.
Tip#4 Prepare a dating plan
What I mean here is that you think of places where you could meet your Mr/Mrs Right! Places you or your friends often go. Open your eyes and start noticing people around you. Do you see some smiley NEW faces?
Tip#5 Make an effort, first impression counts
Let’s be honest – the first thing you look at is physical appearance. It is like judging the book by its cover. I am not saying this is the right or wrong thing to do, it is just human nature. This is something we all do, so maybe it is worth thinking about what to wear when going on a first date? Where to go and what time to meet? Some initial preparation is crucial. But the most important thing is to BE on TIME!
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